Comm-UNITY

Finding true community didn’t just impact my life—it completely transformed it. Decades ago, when I began leading a small group of women, I wrestled with doubts and asked God if I was truly enough for the role. I prayed for courage and realized vulnerability was essential. One evening, during a meeting at my home, I decided to share a personal struggle I had been quietly carrying. I was nervous, but as I spoke, the room grew still. To my surprise, another woman shared a similar experience, and soon others chimed in with their own stories. There were tears, laughter, and a sense of relief in the room, because we all realized we were not alone. Afterward, several women shared that, by the end of our group, they felt God had given them the courage to open up and embrace vulnerability. One friend even traveled a long distance to connect with this special group. Her presence and commitment brought me a sense of grace I never anticipated.

Through that group, I saw how authentic sharing brings hope. As a teenager, I prayed to change the world. Now, I realize true change happens through being genuine and letting God use our stories. Real community transforms lives, one relationship at a time.

And that . . . changes the world!

Over the years, I’ve learned that close friendships with other women have empowered me to do things I never imagined possible. When doubt or overwhelm crept in, their encouragement reminded me I wasn’t alone. I recall the early days of my marriage, when I lacked close friends because we moved so frequently that deep roots were impossible to form. God still provided, but it felt different without my tribe. Life became heavier, and my doubts grew larger, especially during difficult decisions and major transitions. During those lonely times, I often turned to Isaiah 41:10, which says, "So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand." This verse reminded me that God was always near, comforting me and giving me strength when I needed it most.

Once settled, I embarked on a journey from loneliness to connection by choosing to reach out. I prayed fervently for God to bring the right people into my life and took small, deliberate steps to make that happen. These actions included helping someone, sending a heartfelt note, and simply being available to make the first ask. These small gestures laid the foundation for genuine friendships. God blessed me with anchors that provided unwavering support during challenging times, ensuring that I never faced difficulties alone.

Being part of a genuine community of women who know and support me gives me the confidence to follow God’s leading, even when I feel uncertain. Their prayers, encouragement, and presence have pushed me to try things I might have avoided on my own. Strong friendships help me trust God, believe in myself, and embrace new challenges, even when fear lingers.

True community enriches life and deepens our faith. God works through the people around us—whether we’re laughing, talking, or praying. A supportive, authentic community is essential for growth.

If you long for real community, reaching out is worth it. Building connections is hard and sometimes discouraging, but God is bringing the right people into your life. Keep trying and don't give up.

Life is harder without a close community. Sharing with women who love God changes everything. We’re not meant to walk alone. Trusting God together helps us grow beyond what we imagined.

To build true friendship, take small steps—invite someone, reach out, be honest, and pray. These actions nurture community. Face rejection with renewed courage.

It’s better to have a partner than go it alone. Share the work, share the wealth. And if one falls down, the other helps, But if there’s no one to help, tough!

• Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 (Message)