Death in the Womb

On my birthday, I expected to welcome our third child. Instead, I grieved their loss, feeling celebration and sorrow. I remember my shock at discovering I was pregnant. Initial fears turned to excitement as my husband and I dreamed about life with three children. We imagined names and made plans, awaiting our first ultrasound after Thanksgiving.

The joy of anticipation quickly turned to fear when I began bleeding near the end of our trip. Dread filled my heart as two days of cramping and waiting confirmed my fears: I was miscarrying. The ultrasound revealed an empty womb. The technician, who had experienced miscarriage herself, offered gentle comfort. I realized my birthday would never be the same.

In the aftermath, grief has lingered. I’ve carried my sadness to the Lord, seeking healing and light, even as I struggle to understand why some babies are born, and others aren’t. We may never know the reasons for our pain, but we can hold onto these truths: “For this light momentary affliction is preparing for us an eternal weight of glory beyond all comparison...” (2Corinthians 4:17–18). We can trust that “for those who love God all things work together for good” (Romans 8:28) and that nothing can separate us from Christ’s love (Romans 8:35–39).

As I’ve navigated these months of grief, I’ve often reflected on the Cross—where Jesus’ blood was spilled—and found hope remembering the empty tomb.

Jesus endured pain for us, and his resurrection offers hope and new life in suffering. As I mourn, I know Jesus holds me. My hope remains in Him.

To others grieving: you are not alone. Trust God to redeem and grieve with hope—Jesus’ love and presence remain with you.

Gretchen’s story echoes many others.

In my own journey with miscarriage, I found comfort in the Naming Ceremony I shared with my husband. Perhaps it will help you, too, as you walk through your own loss.

Losses in the Womb Naming Ceremony—a gentle way to honor your child, seek comfort, and find healing.

(written by Angie Weigelt, Anoushka Riley, and Ingrid Maddock)

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